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Wreath Night




         By Doug Dolan


            Mid-November 1966, I was thirteen years old,  came together. They devoured Mom’s clam chowder
        sitting in the warmth of my parent’s kitchen. It was the  and meat pies while catching up on family and
        annual wreath night when Mom and her sisters gathered  community news. As wives and mothers, they accepted
        to make Christmas wreaths. My brothers and me had  hard physical labour, maintained a family budget, and
        collected the fir tips a week earlier and deposited them  kept their husbands and children well-fed and clothed.
        on the cold outer porch floor. This night I brought them  Each of them also served as the moral compass for the
        into the kitchen and arranged chairs for my aunts in a  family.
        large circle.
            The three sisters, Ovilda, Millie, and Julia, were
        starting to arrive. Ovilda, was the first. As a child, she
        learned the craft of wreath making and taught her sisters
        the art. This night, she came early to inspect the quality
        of the tips we had collected. I watched as she picked out
        some samples. She looked at me and sensed my
        curiosity. "The tips can't be left outside too long after
        picking. If they freeze, they won't stay together when
        we twist them into the wreath. The same thing happens
        if they are left inside too long; they dry out. You did a
        good job, Douglas!" she exclaimed. I breathed a sigh of
        relief, now proud of my work.
            After brief greetings, the ladies threw themselves
        into their work. The production began by forming a                     Making Wreaths, illustration by Terry Matthews
        round frame from two metal coat hangers. The size of
        the wreaths was determined by using the largest cooking    When age and infirmity took a toll on their number,
        pot in Mom's collection as a measure.  Ovilda assumed  the women pressed into service any child who might
        the role of curving and bending the steel hangers. She  have wandered innocently into the kitchen.
        would hand the frame off to Millie and Julia, who          Many traditions from previous generations have not
        wrapped two layers of fir tips around the edges, using  survived the transition to our society today. Fortunately,
        rabbit wire to secure them. Rita (Mom), the last person  wreath making still brings family and friends together.
        in the production line, made a bow from a large roll of  Many young people are eager to connect with their past.
        red ribbon. It too was secured by wire. She created a  Wreath making is an activity where they and older folk
        hanger by using a double strand of wire. The completed  can gather for an enjoyable learning experience and
        wreath was placed into a box, then on to the next. At the  leave with a tangible reminder of a good time had by all.
        end of the evening, each sister would collect the required
        number for her windows at home.
            Wreath night was as much a social event for the
        sisters as it was a Christmas rite. The women were of
        Acadian stock, and a good feed was expected when they
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